I'm leaving Facebook for good for many reasons but the main reason is privacy and selling of my data for their own purposes and profits. I know they earn their revenue from the ads that appear on their network but I think we've all experienced those ads that mysteriously appear after we've searched for or were looking at something on another website even when we were logged out of the FB app at the time we searched. One of the creepiest things that I've seen was those infamous "people you may know" trying to get us to connect with more people. Like many of us, I have my work email program on my phone that is always open and receiving messages. Recently, I opened FB and noticed there was a client of mine that was showing up in the "people you may know" feed. The ONLY interactions we ever had were at their office and via email. There would be NO REASON that I can think of for them (and others) to show up unless FB was scanning my emails. Another observation was I downloaded the app for the insurance company I use and the very next time I logged into FB were ads for that very company that had NEVER appeared before. Coincidence? I don't think so! I've done "tests" with other applications with similar results. So, FB is also scanning EVERYTHING on my phone???
Plus on July 3, 2019 there was a widespread issue with photos and videos not uploading to FB or their other company Instagram. As reported on Verge they are and have been using AI to determine what or who is in the photo(s). This particular part of the story was especially disturbing. "The same image tags are showing up on Instagram, and as well as detailing general scene and object descriptions, they also suggest who is in a photo based on Facebook’s facial recognition. (The company has been doing this for photos you’re not tagged in since 2017.)".
This along with the many other privacy issues that have been in the news about FB have made me decide to leave the service once and for all. There is another option that is completely private, no ads, no BS and you only see and share your posts with those that YOU want to.
The company is called MeWe and they have apps for IOS as well as Android. If you want a secure and private alternative to FB please join me on MeWe.
Here is a link to my profile https://mewe.com/i/danekenberg
In Toby Keith's song "My List" is a lyric that says "start livin...that's the next thing on my list". This is so appropriate for the way we sometimes look at our busy lives. So many obligations, errands and tasks to complete that this is the one list item that often gets pushed to another day...week...month or year. How we define "livin" is going to be different for each us. It could be canceling that meeting at work to attend a child's performance in a school play or taking your son fishing instead of washing the car or maybe it's something really big, a personal dream you've been putting off for years. However you define "livin" I encourage and challenge you not to put it off for another day but to make it the next thing on your list!
Why is it that we remember sports events or entertainment winners only for a short period of time? Quick, who won the Superbowl 3 years ago? Who won album of the year last year? Did you remember or did you have to look it up online? Heroes and celebrities are soon forgotten not because they weren't incredibly accomplished but because our attention spans are short.
If this is true, why do we so vividly remember those school plays our kids were in years ago or the special vacation we took with family or those words of encouragement spoken to us by a parent decades ago? Because these are the moments that truly matter! When we are making decisions on how to spend our time we need to ask, is this going to make a real difference in my life or in someone else's life? Which is going to be more rewarding...watching Tom Brady throw another touchdown pass or playing a game of catch with your son? We probably won't remember that touchdown pass Tom Brady threw but chances are that game of catch with your son will be a memory for years if not a lifetime. Take photos of those special moments and the memories will be even greater!
What are your special memories? When and how will you make the next one?
Bucket lists can consist of any number of things including; exotic vacations, personal achievement or other life experiences that you want to be sure to do before you die. What I find interesting about bucket lists is the term itself...this is the definition according to the Urban Dictionary, A list of things to do before you die. Comes from the term "kicked the bucket".
Sure, we can call it "our goal(s) or something similar but for some reason I find the term "bucket list" a bit odd. So, what happens when we accomplish what's on our list? Is that it?, or do we add more items to a new list? In addition, does this not suggest that we are close to "kicking the bucket" and must achieve what's on our list immediately?
I feel it is more important to surround yourself with people that understand or even share what it is that you want to accomplish and encourage you! I prefer to not have a "bucket list" but to simply enjoy everyday and not take the little things for granted. The best part of this approach I've found is that it has opened my eyes and mind to experiences that I may have never considered. A simple evening mountain bike ride in the foothills or a walk with my dog Ace can often getting the creativity wheels going at full speed.
Yes, it's important to always be striving towards something great in the future, but not at the expense of missing out on today! I prefer to call it my dream list or life list...
The great quote by Henry David Thoreau says "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you have imagined".
I'm intentionally not watching as much news or going to news websites, not because I don't want to be informed but because of constant negativity. Bombs, shootings, political battles...on and on. I'm not so naive to think that this will make these events stop happening but by focusing my energy on positive events maybe...just maybe I can impact the life of someone else in a positive way.
While on my bike ride across America, I hardly ever heard the "headlines of the day". What I discovered was that despite the bad news that may be happening the real hearts of Americans were everywhere! People offering to let me stay in their homes, conversations with strangers in small town cafes all across the country intrigued about my journey. Often purchasing my meal, taking photos with me, providing me with their phone numbers in case of an emergency and encouraging me every mile along the way. So many times motorists pulled up along side me asking if I needed water or food. On a long, steep mountain road I even had an SUV pull up to me with 3 small children with their heads out the windows cheering me on with a sign they drew on a piece of paper that said "keep pedaling dude" with a smily face.
Simple gestures of kindness can impact people in real ways that we don't even realize. It doesn't have to be anything big, a kind comment to the clerk at the grocery store, letting that person in line go ahead of you, a word of encouragement with a smile to that teenager behind the counter their first day at the fast food restaurant. Opening and holding doors for people, buying a police officer coffee or lunch, paying for the person behind you in the drive up or even something as simple as letting a motorist in during the busy commute. Just think about the impact on the world if we all start practicing simple acts of kindness every day!
What good will you do today?
Take a moment to think about that dream you have in your heart. Have you been putting off pursuing it? Waiting for the right time? As I was pondering my solo cross country bicycle ride I too was trying to decide on the "right time". The bottom line is there will never be the perfect time...there will always be reasons...excuses why it isn't the right time but the simple act of making a decision where there are no other options takes all the excuses away.
When I made the decision to do my bicycle ride across the country in 2017 there were many unanswered questions. Could I do it (physically)? What about my job? How could I afford it? The list went on and on but my decision was made and the pieces began to come together. My employer supported me and assured me I would have my job when I returned...I literally took my journey one mile at a time that after 3 1/2 months resulted in my 3,649 mile cross country ride completed plus I received support from friends, family and total strangers all along the way. The simple act of making a decision turned this dream into a dream realized!
What is that dream you want to fulfill? What are the obstacles standing in your way?
It was a pleasure to speak at the 670KBOI business breakfast this morning. I appreciate all the kind words from folks that stopped by to chat after the presentation. I shared a video with a photo journal of my bike ride across America last summer. If you were unable to attend here is the video...thanks again!